Hi all. Thanks for the support. Lady V , yes on LinkedIn are the sense of entitlement , I'm not sure , the convo went like this
Me.: I'll let you go as obviously that wasn't great news WW.: I'm so sorry but he had no where else to go Me: not my business but I did hold out some hope that you would be back in the house one day , maybe not as W but at least in a mother role. WW: I did too , I think I've got a mental illness because I've lost everything and can't seem to stop what I'm doing Did you give up on that now Me: I don't think you would expect me to take you back after this. Can I ask when you knew that you would never be back ? WW: 2 mins ago and burst out crying
Lady V , I went on to say that I have thought she would be back but obviously she would have to get a new job and remove her friend from her life. She answered that she knew she had to get a new job and her friend would not be about much longer
Vanillia , I have called the sitch with WW fairly accurately re OM since WW left and I must admit that I still think it's not an R in the classic sense , I know this make no difference but my gut is telling me she's telling 90% of the truth
Sotto , your words echoed my IC who I called last night
I am upset but not overly so , I knew WW was spending time with OM and while I suppose I did hold out some hope for reconciliation , I certainly wasn't expecting it
When WW was talking yesterday ('for almost two hours ) a lot was said and maybe I'm just gullible but I did believe the majority of it I am able to distance myself from it and I found that very helpful yesterday because it got to the point in the convo where WW was asking for advice. When I offered my opinion on drunks in general she agreed and from the convo she appears very depressed
Huddy. , thanks for the support , I'm reasonably strong enough to cope now but any advice / encouragement-certainly helps
I know we have no choice in this and we must let them walk their own path
