The things your WAW is saying are projections of how she feels about herself. Know that when another accuses you of something then it is themselves they accuse, if they accuse you of being mean, greedy and uncooperative they accuse themselves.
Be very careful your WAW is very angry and she has a serious issue developing. The anger is really at herself and she is projected outwards unless it destroys her.
Please cease engaging until this anger is unlocked and she sorts the cause of it. There is little you can do to help her, her circus and her monkeys.
Also there are indications here that in order to get what she wants she may manipulate and accuse you of actions you haven't committed.
You may wish to record the next rant as it is likely to be helpful for you if you are accused.
Be prepared for another issue to emerge in good time which has caused her anger. It might even be a frustrated romance, a failed A.
Know this, your W anger is more about her stuff than yours, at this stage stay in your own sandpit. Let L deal with L, you pay good money for it.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW