Hi again, forgot to mention - I pondered what would be my #1 priority ground rule for this to work for me and that would be no dating others while we are still married. he is not the A type so I don't think this would be an issue. In my past I was the cheater - with ex boyfriends, not a husband - I just would NEVER do that again as it is just not worth it in any way shape or form. My H and I married when I was 42 - I've had lots of fun and that is definitely not on the map as vaguely interesting to me! I adore him.
