Yes I do agree with my wife I was lacking in those areas. I've do all the sports activities with my kids coaching all 3 of them in sports. I know however I could do even more at home. Since this started I have been making their lunch every day. Something my wife always did in the past. I've sat down and played board games or cards with them on a random day. But theres even more I can do. I know that.
Love hearing your advice on things to do!!
The tricky stuff comes with the stuff that effects her. DB'ing and showing more communication don't necessarily go hand in hand.
Overloaded with work tonight & tomorrow so I'll elaborate later but basically use this analogy.... Your wife has fired you from your job of being her husband. If your boss at work were to fire you would you continously show up and try to prove him wrong?
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction
