Interesting day.. S11 is having some issues with self esteem, so I was talking to him about it today. I told him after every example, that I was not talking about W. And he would ask "you mean like mom?" And I would say no, and would give a different real person as an example.
He was saying that his classmates all blame him for things that he doesn't do. So I was asking him if he was totally sure they were blaming him. He said yes, they say his name. I told him sometimes people think they are being blamed when they really aren't. He brings up W again, saying that she says that I am blaming her for everything. I told him I haven't talked to her for 6 months, how can I be blaming her?
I actually wrote W a letter and took all the blame, so there is absolutely no sense to W's claim, quite the opposite.
S11 said he told W I'm not blaming her for anything. S11 said W then goes out to her vehicle and sits there... And cries I assume?
Sad that S11 has to point this out to a so-called adult, because he knows what reality is, better than W does! Her reality has always been twisted, I guess this should come as no surprise.