Originally Posted By: tl2

accepting the reality that the old marriage is over


This, i think this will need to be my new mantra now when i think of my R or W.

I was looking for a way to mentally drop the rope, its hard and contradictory because long run we are also trying to save the M or to put it correctly rebuild our relationship into a new M.

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.