This is one thing I did stand strong on at least. I only let my wife take her clothes and personal belongings. She has had to by all new furniture including dishes flatware pots and pans, pretty much everything on her dollar. I'm not paying for anything. Also dint help her move a thing. I stayed and watched. Painful but necessary IMHO.
Well I started to go down that road, and she quickly turned nasty, sayin we are getting lawyers, glad to see my true colors, yada yada. In all honesty, I don't care. I want her to take whatever she wants.
She's walkin away from a decent chunk of change with our house. That's all mine. She's doesn't want anything. She could contest it and get 1/2 of everything. And she would if I fought her though, that's for sure, a little firecracker this one is.
And not to mention, she's leaving a good man. For that, I pity her a bit.