Sandi, quick question. Do you think WW always see the devistation they created eventually or are some blind to it for ever? I guess what I'm asking not what is the norm. More often do they come out of it or do they continue to self medicate with man after man and may never wake up?
That's a good question, but unfortunately, I don't know the answer. This is only my opinions. I have seen teenage girls who were wayward daughters. When they left home, they were like girls gone wild. When they got M, the honeymoon would hardly be over till they were a WW. The ones I know personally, just had a selfish, rebellious and hateful spirit that continued to endure through the years. To me, that is a person who refuses to admit they did anything wrong. They won't accept responsibility for causing others pain. They don't want to conform and they only think of themselves.
I believe there are probably more women who realize the destruction, but it's after many years. These women have learned the consequences of their decisions through the best teacher of all........life. Sometimes it is after the children are grown, and her H has long since moved on.
I consider myself belonging to the lucky group. Those women who came to their senses, for one reason or another, and did not want to cause any more pain, destruction and embarrassment. And even then, it takes time, remorse, and work for her to get her feet on solid ground.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
