poschan, I too am new here and I can't provide you much advice, but I will say the hardest part for me is backing off (especially since I work with my S). It seems the majority of advice here is take care of what you need to, then take care of yourself. I've been using meetup.com to get involved with groups interested in the same things I am.. As I see it, take care of yourself first, and then you'll get to see if she is something you want... I've been working out with my son and by myself, I'm in a better place than I've been in Years, and I now feel like I have a choice in how this goes down, it makes a difference...
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
