from missmyfriend's Standing "still"

Originally Posted By: missmyfriend
She wrote a story in one of her classes (Masters in Counseling -- yep!!) which she shared with me before she left. It was sad. She imagined herself, living alone in a small house, remote, while I was in a new marriage and very happy. It was not a story that sounded like wishful thinking but extremely sad.


OK, that was a tear jerker! S11 one day said that my W said that I was going to be happier without her. I hate to read too much into it, as it came through a child, but it hurt me to think she might feel that way. S11 also told me that W said she is happier now, and he said she clearly is not. So, opposite messages, probably shouldn't assume any meaning. And even if she did say it, "believe none of what they say" should come into play?

Originally Posted By: missmyfriend
She was my best friend. I really miss that.

I really have to quit reading these forums.... that is exactly what I miss about my W. I need to let go, I need to stop with the positive thoughts about the M!!