So, if I get this right, the friendship (or worse) with OM is what is killing any chance of an R with W? So, without persuing, is there any way you can make that known to your W via a third party? I guess that could be a start to rebuilding, if you want it.
Pride - isn't that just another word for stubborn? I respect your thoughts and viewpoints, but you do say you only get one life, so why no put pride to one side, and make some kind of move?
Just a thought - feel free to disregard!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015