Need advice

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I feel like there is some control factors playing into effect here. She doesn't want to be with me, but she doesn't want to lose control of me either. Last night she called me asking about taxes. She started picking, and then brought up S15 biodad. At which point I felt my temper rising. I said to her, hey, I am going to let you go, we can discuss this more later. She became really upset and said I don't get to just get off the phone with her because I get mad. I thought to myself, interesting, actually I think being separated means exactly that!