Thanks LiM. Some good advice, especially taking it slow when she shows signs of thawing. I needed to hear that.

It seems like our talk on Sunday night helped a bit. W was very pleasant when I got home and through the night. We will see how today goes.

I think I missed the point before of not being cold, but detached. I didn't really have the difference clearly defined in my mind, but now I can see some things that I could improve to reach that balance. Thanks Cristy.