Sandi I completely agree that my WW think she is pulling the wool over my eyes. Almost at every turn we get to. I shake my head and have tried to show her how dumb she is being and usually expose the lie. She doesn't like it and usually ignores me or goes silent. It seems like a fruitless effort most of the time. That's why be been letting go more and more. Almost to the point of really not caring anymore. Let her play her games by herself.
That women's infidelity book I wish she would read or anything on affairs or affair fog etc. although that would mean she would have to look at herself and what she is doing. We all know that's not gonna happen anytime soon.
Trumpet good to hear from you. I'm with you all the way. These women are just so defiant and angry and it makes it very hard to even want to consider trying to make your marriage work if they were to ever come around. Cross that bridge though if we ever get there.
As far as L go. I have a friend who is a Family L and have been in contact with her already. My WW is already meeting with her L and making plans to buy the house. I do think it will hurt her financially to try to maintain this place by herself. She will be putting in a lot more hours at work, trying to maintain this house and trying to have a relationship with OM. I feel like she is gonna try to move him in as well and blend our kids/families together. It feels like it's gonna be a train wreck. I think that is the fantasy though. This OM and his kid and our kids as one big happy family. Ugh. Makes me sick.
I'm ready to take whatever she is gonna offer money wise and get out and let her play this fantasy out. I know personally I couldn't afford this place by myself but if she feels she can do it. Have at it. I'll get a nice little place where the Kids and I can settle in. She has already agreed to 50/50. So I have my kids half time, I'm a happy man. As happy as you can be in this situation. Let her go and carry on.
You guys and girls are the best. I love the support and hope all goes well for you in your sich.
Sandi, quick question. Do you think WW always see the devistation they created eventually or are some blind to it for ever? I guess what I'm asking not what is the norm. More often do they come out of it or do they continue to self medicate with man after man and may never wake up?
Me 40 W 35 Kids 2 S6 D3 T 10 yrs M 8yrs BD 11Mar16
