You're in Illinois right? Near Chicago? There are sooooooooooo many opportunities for charity work, free things to do with the kids, things to do by yourself, meet other people..
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction