Don't second guess yourself. IF she is still involved in the A, there is no hope and you can't truly evaluate the effect your changes are having. She'd got to come out of the fog and the A has to stop before that can happen. If you are not seeing changes in her, you should probably assume the A is still active.
Yeah not being able to know makes it tough. This is the EA and the guy is in Houston right now. So any contact is texts. The problem is it's been texts this whole time so he's getting to her emotionally. I saw he posted in March on his Instagram page about a concert he went to with her as friends after high school and said something like still have feelings for this hottie. (I just threw up in my mouth).
LiM, I'm just wondering if I'm not seeing changes I need to change what I'm doing, give it time or maybe I'm not seeing what's happening clearly. I know no one knows the correct answer. And yes, her logic is wrapped around this process and not "feeling" whats happening in the process. Frustrating. Deep breath... keep moving forward.
M:13 years Known her for 30 years! Me: 40 W: 38 Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7 BD: 02/07/2016 Found EA: 3/22/2016 Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16 Got Papers: 6/15/16
