Thanks for the kind words. Sounds like you are in a similar situation, and yea, it [censored]. [censored] even more because she is getting a mortgage and plans to sink a TON of money into the place, seem a bit permanent.

And the bed/sleeping thing, I'm just acting "as if", so...she left the bed, more room for me! She took the fan from the room, got a new one! The comforter thing did irk me only because we had decided she takes the living room furniture, I keep the bed (same value). I had assumed it meant everything that goes with it. But I'm over it, she can have it. In the end, its all just stuff.

I'd be lying if I said I wasn't curious/excited about living on my own. I have no idea how I'll feel once she's gone, but that's an issue for another day.