Headed for D - Trying to move on

[J5K]

This morning W wanted to discuss the D. She continues to state that this will be over by the time the boys are done with school in mid June. I replied with I am not sure when it will be over. I stated our biggest issue is custody. I suggested 50/50 here in Michigan and she stated that she does not live here. She says the judge will give her custody and allow her and the boys to live in Toronto. I just replied with we will have to wait and see.

We then started to talk about the past and she continued to spew about how I filed first. Continues to say I did not unfile fast enough and how I did not do any grand gestures when she came back to reconcile in February. I politely cut her off and said well I am not interested in having this conversation about the past anymore and will not be an enabler to your poor behavior. If your family chooses to do so then so be it.

I walked out the door to go to work. She followed me and stood at the door and repeatedly said "well let me tell you something" which I politely responded with the conversation is over have a nice day and got in my car and left. Needless to say she was not happy she did not get the last word.

There has been no change in WW. I just cannot understand how she has no remorse for her actions and no respect for an M. I may not be the most mature adult, but neither has she. I wish I could understand if there is something truly wrong with her like MLC or NPD.

I also told her that she can go do whatever she wants with OM and that she can have a good time with him giving her attention (Although deep down I am upset that she is hurting me like this). I want to raise my kids and am doing what is best for me and the boys.