The RC stuff was very interesting, Kind of expensive to start, I will see how it goes. It does seem like a good fit.
With my family it was hard after seeing my friend as he lives in the same city as most my family. It just feels like I am stuck in the middle, I stopped talking to my family because it was causing damage to my W and I and our family. I stopped talking to my family to save our family. Now W has broken our family up and her family is not doing things with me included now (wedding). I feel stuck in the middle with no family. I feel now I should have called her bluff and said no to not talking to my brothers and sisters. She should have never asked me to do that. But at the time it was them or her. And we had a 3 year old boy at the time.
This week the S agreement is going to be signed. I know its not the end of the MR but it feels like it.
Why would my W put me in this situation? If you love someone you don't ask then to stop talking to their family. Its all because they don't like her, they broke her hart. She so wanted them to like her but since day one, for what ever reason they didn't. W was asking me to fight for her against my family. To tell them with words where to go and how wrong they were about my W. I couldn't do that. I wanted to understand why they didn't like her, but never found out. The best I could do was walk away from them.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016