Scotch, at one point my first husband (oldest two boys, married 12yrs then super fast divorce) and I split custody like this
Me, every Tuesday & Wednesday
Ex H, every Thursday & Friday
Then we would rotate the Saturday/Sunday/Monday
That ment that one week I would have kids 5 days in a row and then the following week he would have 5 in a row. We always have had 50/50 custody but this calendar rotation worked great as the kids never went more than 5 days without seeing us and it lessened the back/forth.

My kids go to a Catholic school so it doesn't matter where we live but I would pick a school system and promise the kids they won't have to switch schools. It will give them some extra sense of security and stability.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction