Scotch, at one point my first husband (oldest two boys, married 12yrs then super fast divorce) and I split custody like this Me, every Tuesday & Wednesday Ex H, every Thursday & Friday Then we would rotate the Saturday/Sunday/Monday That ment that one week I would have kids 5 days in a row and then the following week he would have 5 in a row. We always have had 50/50 custody but this calendar rotation worked great as the kids never went more than 5 days without seeing us and it lessened the back/forth.
My kids go to a Catholic school so it doesn't matter where we live but I would pick a school system and promise the kids they won't have to switch schools. It will give them some extra sense of security and stability.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction