Starting to do things right?

[PacLove]

This is a serious question, why are we writing and sending apology letters to women that have betrayed us and are demoting us from the position of husband? I'm seriously asking.

In my case it was part of looking at my part in the failure of our marriage. Sure there was the A, but going back 10 years there's plenty I did wrong as well. It kind of goes along with the "What should I change" aspect.

While I don't take responsibility for the A, I definitely take some responsibility for the downfall of our marriage before the A. I was overly critical of my W and wasn't there for her emotionally.