What a positive development, Rose888. It's so good to see this.

BLuWave is right - it surely does take two people in the bedroom, so if he is the one with the complaint, he's going to have to do his part. I think that a lot of men think that women's libido is like a switch that can instantly turn on. Not so much. He needs to be willing to learn and change his own habits, too.

Sending positive thoughts your way!


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16