Starting to do things right?

[CWOL]

Also my DB coach suggested writing a letter of apology, letter is written but hasn't been given yet. It basically apologizes for all the things I've done wrong in the R and the things I'm changing. I see this as going one of two ways:

If you are going to expose, I think you should include the OMW in your target. If they are not separated she could be your biggest ally.

I got that same suggestion for the letter of apology from my coach as well, I was very puzzled about it. Doesn't it seem very un-DB to you? It seems very clinging and not detaching at all. Also, someone warned me, by writing such an apology, if we do split up she could pull it up years from now and show my son, "Look, it was all your dad's fault, see, it wasn't because of OM..."??? I put the coaching on pause because of that, I may go back and try another coach because of this suggestion.