Starting to do things right?

[PacLove]

Thanks all for the feedback on exposure, think I'm going to hold off for now. The only question is about the OM BW (whom I believe is separated from OM) - should I share with her? It will more than likely get back to W if I do and could rock the boat.

Also my DB coach suggested writing a letter of apology, letter is written but hasn't been given yet. It basically apologizes for all the things I've done wrong in the R and the things I'm changing. I see this as going one of two ways:

1) looking potentially desperate or
2) bringing light to my misgivings allowing me to move on

The letter is written with the key phrase "this is not intended to change your mind about anything" and seeks to heal her heart and ask for forgiveness.

It also allows me to move on knowing I've sought forgiveness for where I have failed in our M.

I'm thinking that after our good weekend together, giving it to her sometime this week might be opportune if she's at all thinking about the M.