I think you over think it sometimes biz. Sounds like you are doing great. Just make sure you are really doing these things for you and not because you are trying to get some reaction out of her. That relaxed confidence in and of itself will make you more attractive. Women are real good with sniffing out fakers, if it's just a front, she will see right through it. I struggle with it too brother; I want to see that what I'm doing is having an impact on her, but as long as that's my goal it never will.
