I agree w/twinmom...don't try to understand what he says or does because it will change on a dime and give you a penny back. Sometimes they are thoughtful and kind and then there are other times they can be so nasty about things. Take what he is offering you in the way of you having the children tomorrow as a nice surprise.
So, what are your plans for your special day?
Okay, here's the thing, seeing the kids and working on the marriage are two separate things in his mind. The relationship is actually what he's running away from and since he's obsessed in seeing the kids...that tells me he doesn't see a lot of responsibility in being w/them, i.e., like a father should.
Have a great birthday!
P.S. Please start a new thrad.
Last edited by job; 05/02/1602:26 PM. Reason: new thread request
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
