How has the temporary separation been? Has it defused some of the tension between you? Or is it causing the A with OM to get hotter?
It's been hot and cold, she usually tries to engage with me if I'm home (she comes home 2x/week and every other weekend to take care of D) - I usually try and get out of the house to give her space. She's come home more than we agreed upon, usually to see D or because she needs something. It usually gets tense if I end up bringing up R or $ so I need to stop that.
The first 3 weeks I don't think she saw him very much (I had my ways of finding out) but last week I believe she saw him 2-3 times and spent the night there at least twice, so yeah it could be getting hot and heavy, hard to say. I'm convinced she woke up at his place on my Birthday (Friday) only to spend that night with me away...
She was very resistant to any texting over the weekend so perhaps she felt guilty or perhaps they got into a fight over her going away with me for the weekend - hard to say. She crashed at home Sunday night when she could have probably gone to his or her place.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17
