Sounds like a true MLCer. Always mad at us but according to them they are soo happy without us. Yet they always find a reason to try to bring us back into the fold. Best thing you can do is take care of you and your kiddos. Let him go and let it be his mess Mine uses D as a weapon for me to give into his wants.now that i let go and let God he doesn't get a reaction anymore and it baffles him.