Talked with some friends today about what is going on. They are a happily married couple and I wanted to talk to them to gain some perspective on some things I've been thinking and/or struggling with.

Wow! They've never heard of DB, but they made several recommendations that were pretty much lifted right from the DB/DR pages. It really helped to listen to them reinforce some of the things I've read.

When lost, you sometimes need someone to give you directions.