I am all about the DB, no R talk, etc, but sometimes these waywards need to get checked! As long as you can keep the anger under control and think about what you are saying, it is necessary and can be very effective sometimes! I did this with H and it really had him thinking. Especially when the kids are involved. I think you did the right think by calling her out! Good for you!
-Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela