Starting to do things right?

[PacLove]

Thanks guys!

Once you cross the line of exposure there is no going back.

Good point - about not going back. I'm assuming here you mean public disclosure right? I've already disclosed privately to a few close friends for morale support. It's usually the first question out of their mouth when I tell them we are separated. All of them are telling me to set a deadline.

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WW told me she was intent on separating/divorcing,
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I'm partially there - WW is only in a temporary separation and hasn't really even "moved out" still keeps all her belongings at home and comes home every 2-3 days to change out and see D. We are in week # 5 now. She has indicated no desire for a D and is maintaining the R to some degree - yes I know Cake Eating, but at the same time that gives me some hope she may come back to the M if she still sees some value in it and hasn't given up on it entirely. That's perhaps why Exposure could shock her back but could also turn her away completely.

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WW told me that my Exposure drove the stake through our marriage, there is no chance for reconciliation because of it.
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Yeah this is what I worry about most too... My wife would likely take that path. Although for you it sounds like she had already made up her mind, whereas mine hasn't.