I am glad to read this! Keep doing what you are doing--always put you first, hold your head up high, and don't ever let H decide your worth. If you can reconnect and find a good marriage therapist, hopefully your intimacy will grow over time. I still reserve my position that he is just as responsible for that as you! He's gotta be desirable and sexy for you, help you feel safe with him, and commit to what you need to get turned on!

It takes Two to Tango! :-)
-Blu


“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela