Don't try and understand his mind, he is not rational. Most men in MLC can separate kids from marriage so to us we think if a father wants to see his kids all the time he should just be married to their mother. The male MLC brain doesn't work like that. That rational just doesn't enter their brain.

What do you have planned to treat yourself to for your birthday?



Originally Posted By: Mia2003
Well not sure I should read anything into this.

It's my birthday tomorrow, and normally h takes kids out to McDonald's but when he just dropped the kids off he said is it ok if he sees the kids on Thursday rather than tomorrow as I'm sure you want to spend time with them in the evening. Wow some actual consideration for my feelings.

He is not obsessed about seeing the kids. Why? If he wanted to see them so much surely he'd try and work at his marriage .


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction