Oh Job! Don't think I haven't thought of that. I said to H this morning that she best not contact me nor our children. I have never contacted her, nor will I unless she crosses a line and I feel like my family is in danger.
She is texting him constantly...so manic. I told H he needs to block her from his phone. I will revisit that in a few days to make sure it is done.
Right now, I am stepping back. I have said everything I need to say.
I will give H credit...I was joking around (well not really) yesterday and he took it well. We went to see Jersey Boys last night and the four Seasons sing "Working my way back to you babe..."
I elbowed him and told him it should be his anthem!!!
I know he isn't happy, he said his mind races all the time but he wants this to work. So as I have been doing, I will give him space to think.
we really did have a great time last night and I was going to send him an email or text just saying it but decided against it. I told him last night I had fun and he thanked me numerous times and told me I "did good" with his bday gift.
I also asked H what he would like to do for bday and he said he doesn't want to think about it....he still has 21 days. I think he is scared of 50.
