Mia, Scammers are also contacting people via the telephone about court appearances and then they ask you questions about your personal information for verification. Whatever you do, do not provide personal info over the phone to them either. They should already have that data.
Breathe!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.