Getting out of in house S (9)

[vise82]

Hey Fogg,

I think I will just leave the football alone until the boys are old enough to play. With flag football they are right now. Maybe I should look into that.

Ok met with old friend. His attitude has change form being on the fence to saying W is evil. He must have made contact with my family as he said one of my sisters called him after the last visit. I have asked him not to let my family know we talked. He said that he my brother has remarried. My heart sank when I heard that. Brother did reach out last two summers ago and he was dating a girl who's parent were friends with my W parents. Not close but enough that they knew about the relationship with my brother and they did not tell me for months. When he reached out I left it up to W if we should meet with them. She didn't want to. This was months before BD.

Now I imaging they know about the wedding and have not told me again?

It was other wise a good meeting, showed all his RC stuff, he is really into it, even works part time at a hobby shop.

After I get home and all I could think about was W at the wedding, and who she was dancing with and worse. Literally our relationship was flashing before my eyes, all the old memories were right there in front of me. I never experienced anything like it. It was like it the MR was dying in front of me.

She did not call the day of the wedding like she said she would. I did not call her.

She called the next day when they were leaving. She said kids were a handful, S7 tells me they were the only kids there. What are they thinking inviting only our two and they did not invite any other kid. It was painful for my two boys, they said they were so board.

So I did not pursue and did not get angry, I let it go, and after dinner time and we were sitting on the couch before kids went to bed and W tells me she was going over to the gay neighbors house to show him wedding photos, I let that go too. Not saying my heart was not hurt by that, but I did not show her that it was.