cRW, this hurts and I will not minimize that pain.

5 minutes is a long time for a drop-off, where wounds are fresh.

what if next time you drop them off, you have somewhere to go so that you can't linger...not because she will notice or any of that crap, but because YOU ACTUALLY HAVE SOMEWHERE TO GO and you are looking forward to it.

make it short and sweet. drop kids. kissed and daddy loves you, gotta run. if there is something to discuss...better be pressing otherwise a follow up note would suffice...no need to linger.

so your goal for today is figure out what and where and maybe with whom you are going ton do something next time the kids get dropped off...what do you say???


M - 40's
W - 30's
Two Sons
Living together