Hi Mia, can you forward the email to yourself at home so you can see what it is? Please try and keep calm and remember if you can respond (rather than react) to this - that will be best.
I think it can really help to have things clarified with respect to the kids, so everyone knows what has been agreed - so whilst this may feel difficult just now, it may well be helpful if you can stay calm, accept what is happening and agree some fair terms.
Take care & deep breaths. Remember, the more calm and pleasant you can be with him, the calmer and pleasanter your sitch is likely to be. Xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
I did forward the email to myself but still can't open attachment. I replied to the email to state that I couldn't open attachment but it just bounces?
Hi Mia, it's just a thought but could it be a scam email. If you google court appearance scam email & have a look at what comes up. It says there is an attachment called 'court notice' for you to download, but it's trying to instal malware.
Was the email sent during business hours or in the small hours of the morning/over the weekend?
Xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Sorry it freaked you out and good you reported it. Now then, try and put the nasty scare behind you and have a nice pampering day....do you have any plans? x
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Mia, Scammers are also contacting people via the telephone about court appearances and then they ask you questions about your personal information for verification. Whatever you do, do not provide personal info over the phone to them either. They should already have that data.
Breathe!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
It's my birthday tomorrow, and normally h takes kids out to McDonald's but when he just dropped the kids off he said is it ok if he sees the kids on Thursday rather than tomorrow as I'm sure you want to spend time with them in the evening. Wow some actual consideration for my feelings.
He is not obsessed about seeing the kids. Why? If he wanted to see them so much surely he'd try and work at his marriage .
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