Hi Mia, can you forward the email to yourself at home so you can see what it is? Please try and keep calm and remember if you can respond (rather than react) to this - that will be best.

I think it can really help to have things clarified with respect to the kids, so everyone knows what has been agreed - so whilst this may feel difficult just now, it may well be helpful if you can stay calm, accept what is happening and agree some fair terms.

Take care & deep breaths. Remember, the more calm and pleasant you can be with him, the calmer and pleasanter your sitch is likely to be. Xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus