Well, things just took a massive turn for the worst. Got this text from her:
Look, each time you drop the kids off, i feel like you are dragging things out and I think it's for your benefit. It is hurting them and me to see them like that. They were both happy to be home until you start repeating...ok daddy is leaving now, over and over. I feel like it makes you feel good to see them upset over you leaving. When i left your house Friday, Rowan was crying at the door. I didn't turn around, i didn't pick him up, i left. Because i knew that is what needed to be done. From here on out. You can hand them over at the door. No need to linger. It is upsetting that i need to continue to remind you this is about them not you or me. We have to come to a balance with the way things are. This is life now. My life, your life, their life. It is time to accept that and move on figuring out that balance. Got it?
Me: 38 y/o W: 38 y/o Together: 10 yrs Married: 7 yrs S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15) WBD: Sep '15 W's EA confirmed Oct'15 W Filed Dec '15 Personal awakening Mar'16