Sometimes I go off in panic mode regarding the upcoming legal process, and then I tell myself...hey it's not like I have much to lose. I know exactly who to see whenever there is a medical issue, but feel so lost regarding legal issues. I know no one in this field and I have no reason to trust attorney.
Glad to hear that it wasn't as bad as expected.
Kind of feels like that big inevitable exam that is coming up, that you just don't want to study for or take. once it's over life can move forward.
Only bad thing is my life is kind of on hold. I have some career opportunitities and not sure what to do. One involves niche field in my area of interest,and a little bit of a risk, but other would have super flexible hours (necessary for single mom) , contribute to my pension and basically would give me skill set that would ensure that I would never have difficulty finding employment. Not so interesting though.
how long does it actually take to be divorced? It seems like it's so lengthy of a process in other peoples situations. We have separate assets, and are in a no fault state so I would guess quicker.
