First things first. Did you take screenshots and send them to your phone? Useful if fault-based D is practised where you are.
And also for confronting H.
I am of the view that intel can be useful if you are strong enough to know what to do with it.
What do you want to do with the info, Cherry? Are you able to put away your emotions right now to decide?
You don't have to decide right now. You will probably be spinning right now. Get out of the house and keep busy to take the edge off. If you don't know what to do with the info, I think you should avoid seeing H for the time beng.
Work out what it is that you want first.
FWIW, h may be cake eating and trying to pacify the OW. I dont think he tells her about the hot and heavy stuff that happens between the 2 of you.
Is there any way you can burst the bubble of the A?
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
