Remember your goals. Whether or not someone else is in the picture, you need to stay focused on you.
Originally Posted By: DDJ
1 - Detach 2 - Improve myself 3 - Understand boundaries and implement some. 4 - Appreciate the little things 5 - Lose CONTROL
1 - Who cares what she's doing? 2 - Get your rest and relaxation time in. Read up on the detachment thread. 3 - Read up on the boundaries thread. Set up ways to protect yourself.
Even still, these aren't goals. Goals are measurable...how will you measure your list? Take each one and list 2-5 actual steps for each that you can check off. "I want to improve myself by doing X, Y, and Z." Also, what's your time scale?
