DDJ, perhaps you should consider turning off/getting rid of the tracking device forever? It is just another way for you to torture yourself. If you get rid of it, then the temptation is gone.

Part of you wants to know what she's doing, but it doesn't help you because you can't control anything she does. Try to let it go.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16