Remember your goals. Whether or not someone else is in the picture, you need to stay focused on you.

Originally Posted By: DDJ
1 - Detach
2 - Improve myself
3 - Understand boundaries and implement some.
4 - Appreciate the little things
5 - Lose CONTROL


1 - Who cares what she's doing?
2 - Get your rest and relaxation time in. Read up on the detachment thread.
3 - Read up on the boundaries thread. Set up ways to protect yourself.