Had an R talk with the W today. She said that she wants to live on her own with the kids. I said if that's what you want, that's ok with me. She told me to stop agreeing with her and tell her what I feel. So I did, I told her that I initially was fighting for the family, but that I shifted to fighting for me. I said that I don't want to go back to the M we had before, I want to heal so I can have a brand new M. We went over some of the things that caused us to grow this far apart. She didn't spew too much hate. She did say that her therapist told her that she didn't think things would work out between us, based on my W not wanting to fight for the M, so it (MC) would be a waste of time for both of us. She said that she needs to be alone to heal. She didn't mention OM or her obsession with him. I really don't have any evidence that they are currently together. But she has many, many, many papers that she documented all of the calls to psychic hotlines, she has the dates of birth of OM, his sister, brother, mother, along with his sister's address. W also has a list of over 20 different psychics that she called, divided into a list of who was good and who wasn't. So all of this goes to show that she was very obsessed at some point. I am thinking of showing MIL, so that maybe she can get her out of the fog. I was going to tell OMW, which is really his long term GF they were never married, but there is no evidence that he has done anything inappropriate and wouldn't want to stir unnecessary trouble. Although if OMGF were to tell my W it would definitely have a bigger impact. I don't know whether to do it or just let the A die a natural death...eventually.
