Starting to do things right?

[trumpet]

Don't answer the question. Ask a question back.

A great one: How do you mean?

Another: Why do you feel that way?

Another: Can you tell me why you feel that way?

I still think the best one is the first. She's not asking for a yes/no, as I have come to understand it. She's looking for validation. The question doesn't have enough meat on it to help her. You need to dig deeper into the 'why's' of the question.

It's kinda like touching a man o' war... you're going to get stung, regardless. Might as well figure out where she's at, and maybe flank the question to get to what she wants.

That's if you want to touch that poison-laced double spear...