That's tough.

I'm a rip-the-bandaid-off-fast kind of girl, so part of me would be glad to be out of limbo. On the other hand, I know more time this side of divorce is a gift, and I don't want to throw that away because I hate limbo.

Hugs.

On an unrelated note, I keep wondering why he would get the house? Since you are still living there, wouldn't it make more sense for him to go to the guest house? Apologies if you've already explained and I just missed it.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16