Blu,

You have given me a ton of great advice, let me share some with you. I read this, but it goes something like this. These two this are absolute facts:

- the past has happened and you can't change it. on it's own it is useless to you.
- the future hasn't happened yet. again, useless.

What am I getting at? The present is all that matters. You can use the past as a means to a better present, but don't dwell there. Focus on each day, each minute. You'll be better for it.


Me: 38 y/o
W: 38 y/o
Together: 10 yrs
Married: 7 yrs
S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15)
WBD: Sep '15
W's EA confirmed Oct'15
W Filed Dec '15
Personal awakening Mar'16