It would have been hard for him too, I think men like to feel like the problem solvers, and would look to making sure you are ok. It most probably hit him hard too, but admitting this may make him feel he isn't strong or "manly"

The DR book is really great. You realise how much of this is script. And I find helps me focus and regain some patience.

It is hard, I too miss the simple things. Sometimes you look at them when they seem all miserable and you want to hug them or kiss them, but this essentially is what we want right now, not necessarily them. So we must learn to love them from a slight distance. Read up on the lighthouse story and start to make changes with you.

It is difficult, but take it slowly, be gentle and kind with yourself

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16